So, as Black queer men, we have male privilege that largely provides us with protection from things like the gender-based violence women face every day.But despite our male privilege, the intersection of our Blackness and queerness exists in a society that privileges heterosexuality.If they wanna date a white man, all the more power to them, right? The WMAW phenomenon is itself one steeped in Patriarchal values, sexism and racism.After 26 years as a Black queer man and two separate 2.5-year relationships with white men, 2015 is the year I have decided to stop dating white men indefinitely.And finally, we live in a world that provides white people with privilege while constantly affirming their whiteness at the cost of Blackness.Living in an anti-Black world, it is easy to internalize these sentiments from a very young age and begin to hate different aspects of ourselves.I'm officially ignoring Thought Catalog from now on.I feel like we should do this, but for Jezebel instead of Thought Catalogue.
We live in a white supremacist society that promotes a racialized and gendered hierarchy.
Some weak dudes do go for Asian girls because they are perceived as being more sub-servant. The cringe worthy dudes with noodle back bones with the vice grip on their frumpy Asian broads.
I can’t walk half a yard down the high-fashion streets of Boston with my girlfriends without being visually assaulted by them.
Start it seriously, thoughtfully, then detour into Anne Gus satire midway through so that the editors might let it through.
It'll be like a specialized version of the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air conversion.